What is an au pair?

An au pair is a young adult (18–26) who lives with an American family and provides up to 45 hours of childcare per week as part of a cultural exchange. Regulated by the U.S. Department of State, au pairs come from 30+ countries on a legal visa, and share their language and culture while experiencing life in the U.S.

Host an au pair from $1,785 per month

Au pair stipend & costs explained

Annual program fee1

$11,245

Paid to Cultural Care. Based on a 52 week program.

Minimum weekly au pair stipend2

$195.75

Paid directly to your au pair.

What can au pairs do?

Assist with newborns and independently care for children over 3 months old

Manage morning & bedtime routine

Prepare meals and snacks for the children

Help with kids’ laundry and keeping their rooms tidy

How does hosting an au pair work?

Step 1: Create a profile

Download our app and create a family profile that highlights your childcare needs, schedule, and preferences.

Step 2: Start interviewing

Connect with potential candidates. Ask questions about their experience and interests to ensure compatibility.

Step 3: Match and prepare for arrival

Finalize your match in the app and get ready for your au pair to arrive with the help of our Host Family Preparation team.

Step 4: Welcome your au pair

Extend a warm welcome to your new au pair! Enjoy flexible, personalized childcare and an enriching cultural exchange experience.

What’s an au pair anyway?

Host mom Pooja explains.

What kind of visas do au pairs have?

Before traveling to join their host families, au pairs secure a J-1 cultural exchange visa through the U.S. embassy in their home country, allowing them to legally remain in the U.S. for one year. Au pairs can extend their time as an au pair for 6, 9 or 12 months if they meet all requirements and are in good program standing at the end of their first year.

The cultural benefits of the au pair program

The au pair program offers families a wealth of cultural exchange benefits. It provides the opportunity to experience new languages and global traditions— from holidays and recipes to everyday routines—broadening childrens perspective and sparking curiosity about the world around them. When polled about their experience on our program, 96% of former host children agreed that having an au pair helped them understand other cultures better, and 58% said that having an au pair helped them learn another language.

Hosting an au pair

¹Au pairs pay a smaller program fee to the foreign company that screens them, but no portion of that fee is used to pay for the costs of their international airfare or domestic U.S. transportation. Au pairs may be charged additional fees in the event of special travel requests.

²The U.S. Department of State has determined that au pairs are required to receive from their host families at least $195.75 per week. Host families and au pairs are free to discuss and agree to compensation higher than the required stipend minimum; however, this cannot be in exchange for the au pair exceeding the regulatory limits on working hours (10 hours per day; 45 hours per week) or performing duties beyond childcare-related tasks. The State Department formula is based on the federal minimum wage and applicable room and board credits. Any change in the federal minimum wage or the applicable credits will result in an increase in this minimum stipend amount. Please note, should a family extend beyond the first year, they would be responsible for the stipend for each week of the extension term.